清音遥闻登极乐
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 超研澤古印體; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></SPAN></B><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">⊙空山松子</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun"><FONT face="Times New Roman">/</FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">采访</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">⊙刘盈蓁</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun"><FONT face="Times New Roman">/</FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">口述</SPAN></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">妈妈去年</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun"><FONT face="Times New Roman">88</FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">岁开始洗肾，然而身体还不错，可以自己爬楼梯。今年突然发高烧住院后，体力越来越差，头两天还能走、能说话，后来渐渐无法再走、再说话，终至嗜睡，然而意识仍然很清楚。各种检查显示妈妈的器官不断老化。此时我们向医生表示，因妈妈年纪已大，希望以缓解性医疗为主，不作置入性治疗，并签署「不急救文件」。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">拿着肺部及其它</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun"><FONT face="Times New Roman">X</FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">光片，医生向我们说明，「妈妈的器官正急速老化，此时已不适合再洗肾，如果要洗，因非事先排的班，所以得安排在加护病房。如果有任何突发状况，急救是无法避免的。」「即使洗了，只是多延长几天，情况不会变好。」</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">面临这种抉择，爸爸不肯，子女不忍，实在很难。想到亲爱的妈妈就要离开我们，心中实在难以割舍。可是，若要急救，又能使妈妈好起来吗？还是只是延长她的痛苦？医生的说明很清楚，即使维持洗肾，由于器官不断老化，终究还是走向死亡；此时此刻莫非该是向妈妈道别的时刻了？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman" size=3> </FONT></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>在此重要关键，幸运的是，家中有好几人都对「一念莲华」有深刻的认识，加上从事「一念莲华」、「临终关怀」的智工经验，曾亲眼见到好多「幸与不幸」的故事。</FONT></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>幸者，真心接纳生死、勇敢剖析「延续生命」或「活得有尊严」之差异、欢喜面对来生、及时道谢、道别、祈愿移民无量光无量寿弥陀净土、临终安详（不受无意义的急救与折磨）、享有生命的尊严、生死两无憾。</FONT></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>不幸者，无缘接受「一念莲华」、「临终关怀」、避谈死亡、不了解安宁缓和医疗、对来生毫无准备、来不及完成此生的愿望、来不及与家人说感谢与道别、身体承受种种不必要的痛苦、心里怀着种种的遗憾与绝望、害怕惶恐地走完人生、生死皆遗憾。</FONT></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>而妈妈也是皈依师父多年，心中晓得人生终有老死，平常也会念佛。所以，家人决定口径一致，轮流在妈身旁引导她想起念佛，述说弥陀净土的美好，依着师父教诲，引导妈妈投入弥陀光明，并相约在那儿重逢。</FONT></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">住院十二天后，妈妈安详的舍报。助念时，四姊突然听到阵阵悦耳清彻的音乐由远而近，以为是哪位助念师兄的手机响了，但却四处寻觅不得。在这同时，也有其它家人听到；四姊还说：「赶快录下来，这音乐实在太美了。」只可惜当时没来得及录下来。这可是是弥陀接引的瑞相吗？实在是不曾听过如此的音乐。助念圆满十二小时为妈妈更衣时，身体柔软，肤色透红，全家大小怀着祝福为母亲穿上旗袍向母亲道别：「妈，早证菩提，乘愿再来喔！」</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH-CN><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">火化后，</SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">见粉红色、紫色、黄色舍利子数颗。家人心中悲喜交集，实在太感恩了。</SPAN></FONT></P>
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